We’ve all been a spectator at some point. Most things are designed that way. We watch sports, the shopping network, reality shows or for me flip that house shows! We get excited! We may even invite friends & fam over to join in on this activity of spectating. Perhaps cook even a ‘superbowl’ meal to accompany the event! No one present spectating is actually involved in whats being spectated moreso rather, they are there to help the spectation to be a success.
Could it be that by nature or if even by habit, we take on the role of spectator in our own personal lives? One man said that if you don’t plan your life, life will make plans for you. The hardest step to take is always the first. Why not make a decision to improve the overall well being of your life, your family? The fact of the matter is that if you don’t, no one else will.
People are struggling everywhere and in many areas. See if we want to lose weight there are certain specific things we must do. Watching the Biggest Loser is simply not enough. Right? If we want to be a karate instructor watching Bruce Lee & Jackie Chan simply isn’t going to make you a blackbelt anytime soon. Neither will it lead to you running & instructing a karate school for kids.
Put me in coach! My friend would always say he was 4 feet 2 85lbs and always walked around say “I just want to sack somebody!” Naturally when the play started he was the first one laid out on the field! Yes every play! I never saw him sack anyone! He never quit & even though he was getting beat up all over the field, being on the bench wasn’t good enough for him.
Your present situation should be your motivation to get in life’s game. You wouldn’t intentionally allow self destruction. Would you? Love yourself enough to get involved. Learn. Study. By any means necessary you can do this.
In conclusion, my10cents, everyone can play and they should but if not…you can watch me.